Assalamualaikum and hello!
Now, I'm back! The friendly Anisa is back in this blog world updating her blog with her not so interesting post. Anyway, today I feel more motivated to actually type a new post. You know why? Because I received a mail from one of my reader, Fara Ariana from Johor. In that letter, she wrote how motivated is she when she read my blog. Man! Why? so far from what I know, I have not even update a good post yet. None of them are interesting. Anyway, Thank you for those who keep on reading my 'cannot make it' blog. I know that all of you are awe to the some. AWESOME!!!
Plus, I'm gonna share something I have learn with you guys!
So, from the tittle you can know I'm going to share something serious right? But... It okay. Let's jump to the reality. everyone have their own rights. Every human in this world have their own rights. Even the animals protect what they have to protect but why can't humans do it. You don't have to be rich, popular, smart or even pretty/handsome to be able to stand for yourself and fight for you rights. Everyone is equal regardless their size, skin colour, race and religion. Everyone is different in their own ways, You can't point other people flaws when you yourself don't now where is your weaknesses.
Now, you all may be asking what does it have to do with me standing for myself? Fighting for my own rights? Simple. You have to see who you are first. You want people to respect you? You want people to look at you? You want people to be friends with you? You have to look at yourself first. You have to be brave with your own self. Why? So that no one can actually step on your head. They will respect you.
First, you have to learn to accept you flaws. No one in this world is perfect. No one! Everyone make mistakes. And not everyone have a perfect complexion.
You have to accept the reality. Stop complaining about your size. Stop complaining why can't you look like the pretty actress on the tv. Stop doing that! They have their own life to take care. And you have your own life too. Stop comparing yourself with them. Stop thinking that you are not pretty. Like I say, everyone is pretty at their own ways. Learn to accept the reality. You want to be like them? Have the same face and have the same popularity as them? What's the point people? Instead, take 2 minutes of your time looking yourself at the mirror and point out why you are different from the others. Then, be thankful to god because of this you are different from the others and this also makes you stand out than the rest. Doesn't mean you did not look like the pretty actress on the tv, you are ugly. No! You are completely wrong. If you don't feel physically pretty then better tell yourself this: Beauty is how you feel inside, and it reflects in your eyes. It is not something physical. Huh? Cool right. Like I said everything have to start from you! You have to be more confident in yourself so people will actually see the light in you. Second, don't let what others say becomes a weapon to you. Remember, they did not have the rights to actually judge you. Unless they are more experience that you, then better listen to them. but if someone came to you just to criticise and make you feel worthless. Forget it. Who are they? Your parents? They feed you meh? No right. Then, ignore them. You know yourself better that others. Don't make a fool out of yourself and listen to all of the shit they actually throws to you. Best way when they try to make you feel ugly about yourself, look at their eyes and says: "Ya, I know about that. You don't have to point out my flaws because you are not even perfect, not even near to perfect to actually judge people. Pretty? maybe you face is pretty but from what I can see, Your heart is black. Opppsss sorry!"
Then move away and make sure learn to stand for yourself. This is all I want to share. Actually there are more that I actually want to share with all of you on how to me boost your own self. But I think I'm gonna put it in a different post another day. Now it's time for me to say bye. I'm too tired to actually sit down and do anything as I'm not completely recover from my fever yet. Plus, I stil have to go to work. Life... ANYWAYS, do remember! You are attractive in your ownways. If you have anything to ask or clarify, you can just email me you question to me on ichanisa506@gmail.com . I'll try my very best to actually help those out there who actually afraid of socialising with the others!
